In a society where everyone is so busy these days (and only getting busier!), something that we know to be true about any relationship – long distance or not, is that they require attention, effort and commitment to make them work. These nifty gadgets and tools are designed to enhance communication and make it feel easier to spend quality time with the ones we love. Digital technology brings a swag of clever gadgets to help maintain strong attachment and emotional intimacy, even when you’re staying in different cities. These can be especially handy for long-distance couples who might not be living in the same time zone where simple communication like making a phone call can be tricky. As someone in a FIFO relationship, we’re always open to discovering the different ways to stay connected even when far away. These gadgets are a great way to increase feelings of support and comfort but also inject a bit of fun into the lives of long distance couples. The lamps use an app that both parties download and register to create a private group. Then using wifi, you can let your partner know you’re thinking of them by changing the colour of their lamp – from anywhere in the world! I like the way these aren’t as disruptive as the bings and beeps of texts or phone calls which is handy across different time zones. And for something relatively simple, they leave a lasting impression. They come in such a huge range of colours and modern design too, so there’s something for every style. When couples are apart for work, like in FIFO, sometimes there isn’t much to talk about at the day’s end. Sharing in something as simple as watching a movie or show means you can chat about what you loved/hated and find points of connection. Tip: Take it in turns each time to choose what you watch and embrace the opportunity to explore different content outside of your comfort zone.
Music
Music helps evoke emotion by resonating with our feelings, memories, and experiences, creating a powerful and immediate connection between our inner and outer worlds. Create your own custom playlist that you can both edit and listen to when you feel the need for a hit of connection across the miles. You could even create different playlists for different vibes. Maybe a romantic compilation when you want to feel loved up, or a fun workout playlist for the gym. You can watch movies, stream music and games remotely. It’s a fun way to talk in real time, while enjoying an activity together. All you need is the mobile application to sync rings and then you’re free to tap into the rhythmic solace of your partner’s heartbeat when needed. Video chats are best done when you both have the space and environment for them (i.e. not in the middle of witching hour). Schedule a day or time that suits you both so you can be more present and enjoy some time talking face to face. Looking through treasured snapshots boosts feelings of love and rekindles cherished memories – reminding us of the special moments and connections we’ve shared with our partner. A digital photo frame is a modern way to share photos without the need to visit an old-school print shop. It’s also an easy way to share photos without needing to add to the mental load and remember to send text messages with recent pics. Conveniently upload photos through the associated smartphone apps to keep your partner up to date with all the latest happy snaps and videos. There are SO many online games that you can play either in real-time or at intervals if you’re across time zones but the genres that tend to work well are any that are cooperative/team based. But if you have more of a competitive streak (and it won’t be destructive to your relationship) you might want to check out those more in the competitive realm. For more traditional online board games games you could try the classics like Words With Friends or chess. Or there’s trivia, question/answer games for couples and a whole lot more… Like I said, the world is your oyster! A quick search online will reveal different ideas for both digital board games and video games. Or you can try somewhere like Board games Arena. It helps me feel connected to my wider community, discover new things and allows my imagination to wander. I think of podcasts like modern wireless shows. Much like movies and tv shows, they give you and your partner things to discuss and topics of conversation each time you chat. Plus, thanks to the amazing amount of free podcast streaming services – a low cost option – which we all love, amiright? I love listening to audiobooks on long commutes or while cooking dinner. They’re great if you’re not inclined or have difficulty reading a novel or prefer to listen on the go. Books are real conversation starters. It’s always fascinating to me the different perspectives and opinions that individuals bring to reading a book. The audiobook element creates a unique experience because the voice of the narrator can also impact the way we interpret or experience a book. A nice romance novel can also evoke those feel-good warm and fuzzy feelings that help us to feel more connected to our loved ones, too. It’s more compact than a digital photo frame and the design is super cute and crafted from timber. They would also make perfect gifts for kids who are missing mum or dad when they are away. You can colour code events, add reminders with a sweet message for an additional touching way to remind significant others that you’re thinking of them. Virtual reality headsets are a clever and versatile product that can be used for everything from video games, watching live music or simply chatting to each other. Imagine being able to go on an adventure to another planet, play golf or enjoy a rollercoaster ride – all without leaving your lounge room!
One of the loneliest parts of long-distance relationships can be the physical isolation of being apart. And although nothing compares to skin-to-skin connection, remote control vibrators are a fun way to bring sensual connection into the bedroom for ldr couples. Not only reserved for women too – bluetooth sex toys are available for all genders so everyone can find the perfect addition for spicing up their sex life! Check out Aussie brands Normal (who are trailblazing in the sustainability space) and JouJou who offer free shipping in Au and NZ for all orders over $59! So, if you’re already living the LDR life – here are some more cute gift ideas (some non-techy) to spoil your romantic partner, whether they’re home or away.
Photo Books
Create a sweet, custom photo book for your honey to flick through and remind them of all the wonderful memories you have together. You can create these online from places like Officeworks and SnapFish.
Care Packages
Not always possible, especially for FIFO workers, but putting together a personalised care package is a simple and thoughtful gift idea when you’re apart from your loved one. Don’t forget to include a handwritten note!
Flowers
I know, flowers are like, so cliche. But nothing really gives you the warm fuzzies like having a bunch of fresh blooms delivered to your door. Have a squiz over on Petals Network for a beautiful bunch of flowers – or if a native posy is more your vibe definitely check out lvly.com.au – both with same-day delivery available.
Brew-quets
Spoil your lover with a tipple or two! Brewquet is the beer, wine, whisky and cider equivalent of flowers, delivered straight to your door.
Home-delivered treats
From brownies, to hampers or even a delicious home cooked meal- there are so many options for yummy treats to deliver to your loved ones door from afar. For a simple idea – hop onto Uber Eats and send your partners favourite local take away to their door as a thoughtful surprise.
Handwritten Letters
How exciting is it to receive a handwritten letter in the mail? Surprise and delight your partner with a romantic letter. If you’re stuck for words you could use a beautiful quote or poem to express your affections instead.
Adult Toys
Your partner might be reluctant to purchase their own adult toys – so why not give them a gift that’s sure to please them all year round!? Plus – there’s the added bonus that you’ll likely be on their mind when using it. Win/win! JouJou is a local brand that makes shopping online easy, or for a sustainable option – check out Aussie brand Normal. A Lovely Book Whether it’s their favourite novel, a beautiful coffee table book or something quirky and fun. You can order a book online for a sentimental and personal gift that can easily be sent straight to your lovers door.
